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Domestic Violence Intervention

How to help someone you know who may be in an abusive relationship:

  • RECOGNIZE  LISTEN empathetically. ASK about physical and emotional abuse
  • RESPOND  ACCEPT and validate. DOCUMENT and maintain confidences.
  • REFER  CONTACT law enforcement if necessary. CALL resources (like AVDA at 713.224.9911) for help.


  • VALIDATE by saying “I believe you” and “You don’t deserve this” as frequently as you can.
  • MAINTAIN confidentiality.
  • REFER the survivor to a professional and offer to accompany him/her.
  • DOCUMENT what the survivor tells you. 


  • JUDGE.
  • OFFER MEDIATION as a solution.
  • QUESTION his/her story or experience.
Violence in the Greater Houston Area

Unfortunately, family violence is on the rise in Houston. The Houston Police Department reported that in 2018, domestic violence crimes had increased by eight percent over previous years.

    • In 2017, 27,717 domestic violence calls were received; in 2018, there were 31,079.
    • In 2017, 43 people lost their lives to family violence; last year the number jumped to 58.
    • 1 in 4 women experience domestic abuse in their lifetime.
    • 25% of physical assaults perpetrated against women are reported to the police annually.
Reported violence in Texas
  • 211 Texans lost their lives in 2018 to domestic violence
  • Harris County had the highest number of deaths of the 64 counties with 42 lives lost at the hands of an intimate partner
  • 174 women were killed in Texas by their male intimate partners in 2018, the highest number of women killed in the last decade
  • 32 men were killed in Texas by their female intimate partners in 2018
  • One woman and four men were killed in Texas by their same-sex partner
  • 290 children in Texas lost their parents in 2018 due to family violence.

Learn more about Texas Council on Family Violence’s Honoring Texas Victims reports. 

Domestic Violence - A Broader Look
How often does domestic violence happen? Because incidents of domestic violence are estimated to be dramatically underreported (as many as 70% of cases may go unreported) it’s difficult to know exactly how often it occurs in the U.S. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, “every 9 seconds in the US, a woman is assaulted or beaten.”

How often is the hotline used? The NCADV reports that, according to a 2013 survey, “On a typical day, there are more than 20,000 phone calls placed to domestic violence hotlines nationwide”

Who are the victims? Both men and women are victims of domestic abuse, although women are more likely than men to experience domestic violence. The National Domestic Violence Hotline reports that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men in the U.S. “have been the victim of severe physical violence by an intimate partner.”

How many victims? Estimates for the yearly total of victims of domestic violence range from 10 million a year to 12 million a year — that’s roughly 20 people every minute, reports the NCADV.

What about children? Children who live in a home where domestic violence occurs are also victims. According to Safe House, “more than 3 million children witness domestic violence in their homes every year.” Growing up witnessing domestic violence can have detrimental effects on children’s’ emotional and physical development.

The Ultimate Tragedy
Each year, the Texas Council on Family Violence compiles a list of the women killed by their male intimate partners in Texas. TCFV collects the victim’s personal stories from newspapers and other sources so each story can be told.
Click Here to read more.
Signs of an Abusive Relationship
Abuse comes in many forms: physical, verbal, emotional, sexual, psychological, financial, and spiritual.

There are many signs of an abusive relationship, including when an intimate partner:

  • Hurts or threatens to hurt you;
  • Criticizes or humiliates you;
  • Creates fear and intimidation;
  • Acts jealous or controlling;
  • Threatens to hurt or take the children away; and
  • Tries to limit time with family or friends.
  • Fact Sheets 1

Teen Dating Abuse Facts
  • Violent behavior typically begins between the ages of 12 and 18.
  • One in three adolescents in the U.S. is a victim of physical, sexual, emotional or verbal abuse from a dating partner, a figure that far exceeds rates of other types of youth violence.
  • One in 10 high school students has been purposefully hit, slapped or physically hurt by a boyfriend or girlfriend. Nearly 1.5 million high school students nationwide experience physical abuse from a dating partner in a single year.
  • Girls and young women between the ages of 16 and 24 experience the highest rate of intimate partner violence — almost triple the national average.
  • College students are not equipped to deal with dating abuse – 57% say it is difficult to identify, and 58% say they don’t know how to help someone who’s experiencing it.
  • One in three (36%) dating college students has given a dating partner their computer, online access, email or social network passwords, and these students are more likely to experience digital dating abuse.
  • Nearly half (43%) of dating college women report experiencing violent and abusive dating behaviors while one in six (16%) college women has been sexually abused in a dating relationship.
1 in 4 women experience domestic violence in their lifetime.

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